Archive for March, 2006

Flowers, Galveston, San Jacinto, Kemah & Legos, YAY for Comrade

Friday, Elizabeth flew in from California. We went to Tookies Friday night for dinner.


Saturday, we went to Mrs. Lynn’s house and assembled faux flowers for the wedding. We had quite a lot of fun, and the flowers turned out georgous (flower pictures will be posted after the wedding!!!). Lynn’s Mom was there, Mrs. Jane was there, Mom and Elizabeth and I were there.

Sunday, Elizabeth and I went to Galveston. We ate by the Waterwall, and walked up and down the Strand.


Monday, we went and saw the SanJacinto Monument and surrounding Battle Grounds. The Monument was being renovated (for festivities later in April around the 21st) but we still had fun taking pictures and wondering when the rain was going to come.


Tuesday, we went to Kemah and had every intention to go to the Mall of the Mainland (we were going to have gone to the Galleria –but decided against it b/c traffic can be awful). The car had other ideas, so after quite the adventure we came home and played with Legos in the attic.

Eventually I will put more pictures up in my Yahoo albums. The new albums I put up will be added to at some point in the future! I’ve got pictures, but not the time to get it taken care of right now. There will also be more new pictures on our web site a few days after April 10.

I got the good parking spot

The squeal of tires awakes me. I lay in bed, straining to hear for a crash, but none comes, typical. After a short phone conversation with my fiancé, I get out of bed, tend to the cat, have a responsible breakfast of Crispix, and then spend an hour watching the news while spinning away on the stationary bicycle in the living room.

Sticky from the hour spin, I have a leisurely shower. Then I check e-mail and the internet’s interpretation of the news and current events as I listen to the local radio talk show guru that is on before the Rush Limbaugh show. I liked Glenn Beck better, but he’s been moved to 9 or 10pm, after the Tony Snow show, which I don’t like nearly as much so I tend not to listen.

After an equally responsible lunch of a small roast beef sandwich on what my mother has deemed to be “acceptable” bread (the kind where you can see the grains and granules), I head to the library to pick up the six books that are on hold for me. Correction, they’re on hold for my mother, but I used online account to request them.

I feel very sneaky checking out the books with mom’s card, (she knows I am using it, she left it for me to use).

I go chat with the retired librarian who runs the book donation area. I plan to donate my books there instead of dragging them to 1/2 Price Books, it really isn’t worth it for the books I’m trying to get rid of, I won’t get enough to cover gas money anyway.

Checking on the friend’s pets proves futile, I don’t have the key for the dead bolt so I can’t check to see if the pet-sitter is doing a good job or not. The dogs met me joyously at the back gate, they were on their leashes, and had water, I hope it doesn’t rain on them. Hopefully the cat’s have food.

Down ElDorado to ElCamino to HEB, I feel very much like a BMW as I slowly creep up and down the rows of parked cars and beat out a large SUV for the Perfect Parking Location, not too far from the exit of the grocery store. I feel even more BMW-esque as I slowly meander the aisles of groceries. I don’t have much else to do today. I just need to find enough food to sustain me for the weekend, and appropriately entertain my guest.

Tonight we will have organic shells in a white cheddar sauce and a caesar salad, Saturday for breakfast we will have fresh blueberry muffins, dinner will be a lasagna and a mixed salad with ranch, breakfast will be fresh cinnamon rolls.

Politely turning down the people handing out samples, I watch the other shoppers. It is very clearly Spring Break in CCISD. Many shoppers have at least one school-aged child in tow. Happily, I don’t. No one is tugging on my sleeves demanding super sugary cereal, or throwing tantrums over the shapes of the pasta they are clearly not going to get.

At the checkout counter, the woman is not quite sure what to make of me. I am a pale blue oxford button-down shirt with three or four buttons buttoned, a now oversized pair of gray men’s cargo pants and low-budget bright red flip-flops. My hair is up in a messy ponytail. My micro-fiber purse and red leather wallet further seem to confuse her.

As I walk to the car, I admire the excellent location I parked. I am also quite happy not to be the mother struggling to keep the two children with her under control. They are refusing to hold her hands as they walk through the parking lot.

Pulling into the driveway at home, I pause and wonder what the Cat is doing, hopefully he’s staying off the roof.

Rely on long time friends to give you advice, and my lucky numbers

“I have sparkling water, fruit and shortbread,” Lynn said as we headed down I-45 on our way to the beltway. We had already stopped by at Michael’s (craft store) assembled two sample bouquets and tentatively put them on hold. “We’ll go down to Harwin and look around down there.”

Second stop after Michael’s, Chinese Floral Silk and Crafts (or something like that). Run by a gaggle of petite Chinese women with at least one bright red article of clothing we navigated our way through a series of narrow shelves crammed full of faux flowers, ivy, filler, foo-foo and other floral accessories. Their faux food selection rivaled the local grocery store’s real selection –and in a lot of cases, it looked much better.

It was there we found the most amazing long-stem cream colored roses. I had originally had my heart set on yellow, but these felt so amazingly cool (and looked pretty awesome) I knew they were the ones I wanted. Then we looked at filler, foo-foo, ivy, and smaller flowers for corsages. Once we’d found a good selection, we kneeled on the floor arranging, rearranging and “visualizing” the bouquets.

“Do you like sparkling water?” She handed me a can, “Beau calls it beer-water.” Lynn pulled out a bag of ice cubes. “Do you mind if I chew on the ice?” She clinked a few into a plastic tumbler. “There is another flower place around here somewhere, my mother’s gay hairdresser and I went there once.”

The next three or four stops are a bit fuzzy. Many of the places carried an impressive quantity of Quinceanera accessories, and the wrong color green ribbon. We were looking for a subtle green, not a sickly Easter-candy color.

Around 1pm we realized it was a good time to think about lunch. We found a Chinese restaurant in the area. Inside was a large table quite full of elderly chinese people, the entire restaurant was quite full, and a mildly irritated looking waitress said “Put them in the room.”

We were taken to “the room,” in the back, with the 10 AC vents, sort of tucked away. Lynn had a few words in Spanish with the person seating us and we were moved to a different table. As we watched more people come in, the waitress directed them to “the room.” Glad we weren’t there, it sounded ominous.

Once we were seated, Spanish became the language to communicate to get things. The busy Chinese waitresses wooshed right past us, but the Mexican help was happy to hear some semblance of their native language. We always had water refills, and when Lynn’s food showed up, and mine didn’t they tracked down a hassled looking waitress and eventually my food appeared.

My fortune and lucky numbers (use them, you might win the lottery):
Rely on long time friends to give you advice.
06 11 18 27 36 - 05
02 03 17 30 31. 1 3 7

After we had lunched, I think we went to another floral shop (I could be wrong), then we drove around through the little trendy parts of Houston –you can tell b/c they have different street lights, and we drove along Westheimer (the other trendy little part of town). Eventually we ended up near Crate & Barrel, so we stopped by there so Lynn could see what we had registered for. It was rather fun, I’d never been in that C&B before.

From C&B we stopped off at the cute little French Bakery. “We’re this far out here, I can’t pass it up,” Lynn said as we navigated the steep grade into the parking lot. I got a cookie and a package of six croissants. We played in Houston traffic for awhile, waited for longer than usual at the light by Clear Lake City Blvd., and then took Highway 3 to Bay Area to get back to Michael’s.

Michael’s, didn’t we start there this morning? Yes, but that was at 10, it was now 4. We picked about 5 of the 20 or so flowers we’d put on hold, and then looked at ribbon, and smaller flowers for the corsages. I also looked at all the bridal stuff I’m not going to have to deal with, it made me quite happy. No unity candles, no foofy white guest book, no flower children. YAY!

Eventually we made it back to my house. Took the flowers in to the oooh-ing and ah-ing of the Parents and the Company that was Over for Tea. Weekend after next we’re going to assemble the flowers for the wedding party, then I can check it off my list as accomplished.

Amusing wedding dress story… fortunately NOT mine!

After reading this account of wedding dress shopping, I feel better about my experience.

My most recent weekend in Boston

I will not be back in Boston until May, at which point I will be living there. I can’t say I will miss Boston much between now and then. The people who drive around there terrify me. I have no plans to drive around that city. The street corner near where Gavin lives usually has at least one or two disgruntled drivers honking for whatever reason.

The other scary place is the local Market Basket. The way the people drive their grocery carts (please note the plural on carts, many people had convoys of two or three) is almost as terrifying as the people outside in their cars. The cool thing about Market Basket is that it was only slightly more international then the Frankfurt Airport. I don’t think I heard English being spoken, except by the checkout girl.

Cool hardly begins to describe Boston, I’d say FREEZING, and I wouldn’t be too far off with that. Walking along outside the wind only helps to accentuate the loss of feeling in one’s ears, nose, and finger tips. It is early March! In Houston, I was out catching rays on the back deck, in Boston, I went out bundled complete with hat and scarf.

I probably should have worn gloves, but my engagement ring snags on the inside of them, and I wanted to wear it when we went and picked out wedding bands. We got our wedding bands this weekend: Gavin’s got a huge size 12 finger, mine is a little size 6. His band will be 4 millimeter. platinum, mine will be 2 millimeter.

I’m back in Houston now, it is nice and warm and the high 70 or thereabouts. It was in the 30s in Boston. I hope that the weather will be nicer in May.